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When Friendships End
Friendship breakups happen more often than we realize, yet few of us are prepared for the grief they bring. Close friends become the people we share our news with first, the ones who understand our history without explanation, the steady presence in our ever-changing lives. When that bond fades, shifts, or suddenly ends, it can hit harder than we expect. Unlike romantic breakups, which often come with advice, support, and rituals, losing a friend can feel quiet and unacknowle
Anya Szumowski
Nov 4, 20253 min read


The Freedom in Feeling: Learning to Sit with Discomfort
If there’s one coping skill I could wish upon all my clients, it would be this: the ability to sit with and tolerate discomfort. Not to...
Anya Szumowski
Jul 21, 20253 min read


What I’ve Learned (So Far): Reflections from a Pregnant Therapist
As I prepare to go on maternity leave, I’ve been sitting with the many layers of this experience - not just physically, but emotionally,...
Anya Szumowski
May 20, 20255 min read


Lost in the Woods: Why Support Matters (Even When It Doesn't Fix Anything)
I often tell clients: being lost in the woods alone is probably one of the worst things imaginable. You're scared, no clue how to get...
Anya Szumowski
May 14, 20252 min read


Why Do We Cry? A Therapist's Take on Tears
Tears have a way of catching us off guard. Sometimes they come in quiet moments - in the car, in the shower, in the middle of a...
Anya Szumowski
May 1, 20254 min read


Why Do I Act Like This? Attachment Styles Explained
You may have heard the term attachment style before, but what does it really mean? In simple terms, attachment refers to the way we...
Anya Szumowski
Apr 23, 20254 min read


World Events Affecting Your Mental Health? Here’s How to Cope
Feeling the weight of the world hitting harder than ever? You’re not alone. Lately, I’ve seen a wave of clients coming to sessions...
Anya Szumowski
Mar 20, 20254 min read


Writing Your Way to Better Mental Health
Journal writing - one of the greatest yet most underrated tools for processing, reflecting, gaining clarity, and healing. As a therapist,...
Anya Szumowski
Mar 10, 20255 min read


Let Them Be Mad: Why You Don’t Have to Fix Everyone’s Feelings
Avoiding conflict often means going out of your way to keep the peace. You soften your words, hold back your true feelings, and sometimes...
Anya Szumowski
Mar 7, 20252 min read
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